Life is Such & Such is Life !

There are moments in life that take your breath away.
The interaction, the joy, the fun all lead to your smiles and your heart. It is so easy to dream, create, imagine, a life of such joy that reality more often than not takes a back seat.

The beauty and measure of its success are determined by the longevity of the smiles, joy and euphoria felt during this time. If this natural high fades, or diminishes then serious consideration needs to be applied and personal evaluations thoroughly explored.

But this is the nature of the beast when matters of the heart are contemplated and explored. I find the first step to stability is letting go. Rid your body and soul of expectations, historic events, hopes, desires' and above all ego. Mentally dump everything you know or have experienced in the past. At this juncture I wish to add that this for many people is almost an impossible task. Thus history and people are destined to repeat their actions and obtain similar results time and time again. Seriously look at this love through new eyes, endeavor to treat each and every contact as a first time event.

The real beauty of the experience is that of elation and abandonment. Not having to stick to the rules and doctrines laid out by society, parents, church or upbringing have a profound affect on our soul. Understanding that you possess the key to love and sharing is a wondrous thing. It is in itself unique in this modern lifestyle and quite often becomes a life changing experience, if and when you remain true to yourself.

When you awaken in the morning and understand that someone loves you, to the extent that they do, your body, mind and soul feed off each other till they are filled to capacity. No matter what your normal day holds this single emotion and realization trumps all. This being said, we must also be realistic and if this emotion or realization does not occur or is not realized then never give up searching. Trust me when I say that the joy of a loved heart has no comparison, and you must seek till the ends of time because it does exist and deserved your experience and sharing.

Once found respect and cherish it for as long as it lasts and you are mentally and physically able. Do not assume it will be around forever and never treat it lightly or show any form of disrespect or familiarity as it is a fine balance especially in the very beginning of this phase.

"Live in the moment but just as importantly live for the moment"

You may never realize the karmic debt we have to each other and we will also never really know the course we will take or the longevity of the experience, but by remain true to each other with respect and honesty and you will find there is more than a fighting chance of survival.

To experience love at this all consuming level is a gift in time and any 'of this world' items, activities, duties and entertainment pale into insignificance when it comes to true love. If the subsequent events or contact does not yield the same awe inspiring emotions or love then do not despair for matters of the heart and soul are governed by the rules of this universe and always have and always will long after we are gone. Cherish what we get and do not restrict your experience by trying to measure it against old or lost loves.

If ever asked as to my crowning achievement in life I would gladly claim that I have loved a beautiful woman. Do not, I plead you, get caught up with society their expectations and rules that you miss an opportunity for reckless abandonment in someone else's heart.

Thus done and said on this day 2nd November 2016 - Soul'O'

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